Let the necessary occur
NO was so necessary!
That rejection you got – was an undeniable requirement.
That sounds a tad bit derogatory right, who willy-nilly welcomes negativity?
You’re going to agree in a bit. Just wait.
That person with whom you’re so deeply in love, just broke up with you. Be it a divorce, separation or whatevz… You are broken hearted and feel hella rejected.
You question yourself and wonder how it is that you’re not good enough.
You’re so hurt and fractured, you can’t think of anything except that unbearable pain.
You think to yourself –
You might even say it out loud, HOW?
How was I not received the way I’ve been giving? I done everything in my power to secure this love because I didn’t want it to ever end.
The person with whom I’m so in love is okay to just walk away.
Please don’t get me wrong, this is just an umbrella scenario. I’m not talking about when people die.. Noooo – Not that kind of a departure.
Anyway – stay with me!
You can’t see it straight away but this right here, this was a necessity.
Their goodbye opens up flood gates
of an abundance of reciprocation.
Remember, you’re grieving, surely you have limited hope for the future.
I don’t think that anyone enjoys being hurt.
They had to say goodbye
They had to leave to prepare room for someone who is equipped to love you the way that you’re capable of loving.
Someone who wants to give just as much as you do.
I’m talking romance
I’m talking friendship
I’m talking job
Getting laid off work stabs like a dagger
But you know what’s worse than that incision?
Being taken for granted
Not being appreciated
Not being recognized
Not being commended
No reciprocation from the person
No reciprocation from the entity who gives you money in exchange for you fulfilling a role for which remuneration was the contractual deal
That hurt is somewhat manageable because you’re able to live and let live
But your flame kept being doused and you’ve had to paint on a metaphoric smile to persevere
Once that door shuts
What awaits you is larger than you can comprehend
If someone doesn’t appreciate you, no additional effort from you will make them appreciate you
If someone doesn’t recognize your brilliance, your extraneous effort won’t open their eyes
In your heart of hearts
You’ve gotta thank them for throwing you out
Thank them for doing you dirty
Thank them for betraying you
What’s meant for you won’t come at the price of your heartache
What you’re designed for, won’t cost you your mental health
Let the neccesary occur by them rejecting you
Your good vibrations will elevate you and take you to
Hold the vision!
Trust the process!
Let the necessary occur